Achieve Your Goals

Its another day, and its another opportunity to obtain or get closer to obtaining our goals.  What are our goals? How long before we see these become realities? They say," there’s a time and a place for everything",  well I say , the time is now and the place is here…

     
     When goals haven’t been reached by a certain age, we become trapped in the idea that by this time, that particular goal should have been materialized. We go into the negative part of   the scenario. This in turn affecting us as individuals and ultimately never allowing ourselves to finish the race.

     If we could get over the fact that we had set goals for a certain age and here we are passed it, we can then re-establish that goal or  commence a new one. This time around focusing on completing the new task at hand and learning from the experience of  not being able to be where you originally intended to. “ Fool me once, shame on you,  fool me twice, shame on me!”   Just came into mind, I don't know why…

     We reap what we sow, so true. Your effort, persistence  and most importantly your CONSTANT POSITIVE STATE OF MIND, will ultimately be the key you need to unlock that door and walk straight through it. Never forget the positive part. That’s what makes us or breaks us. When we first started to walk, we fell and fell and fell. We did, but then we got up again. We prevailed. So this, I believe, we already knew...

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KEEP FIGHTING

Have you ever felt you hit bottom and every door you want to walk through, some way or another, seems to be shut? Why is it that we find ourselves in situations like these? How will we find our way out? To be honest, sometimes we don't understand why we have to go through tough times.  Who wants that?

     Well, the answer is no one . The importance of a bad experience, is the good knowledge we will acquire from it. I know it seems so easy to say it when everything is OK or already passed. However, I figure there is a greater purpose for those bad times. Sounds silly, but through these times is when we must be the most positive. Even after a horrible day, or week, or month, or year, never forget to be grateful for life, health and family. If we keep on fighting, never look back and never give up, victory shall be ours…

     Remember the time you were young? That situation  you felt you couldn't overcome? Eventually we came out alive but through the process we injured ourselves. By injuries, I mean the stress, the sadness, the guilt and basically all those negative emotions that damage our mental and physical well being.

     With that being said, if you are going through a bad time in your life, let it all go. Let all that negativity fade away and replace it with absolutely nothing but positive and good. Don't hurt yourself with all those negative emotions. Instead, start to fight and never stop. Remember that this, you already knew...

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SELF EXAMINE

Self examination is something not a lot of people think about. Not physically, but personality wise. It is human nature to evaluate other personalities but not our own.  The reason for this, is that it is easier to see a defect or a flaw in someone else rather than  oneself…

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     Have you ever been around someone you thought was completely annoying? I think I know the answer to that. Do you think they know this about themselves? The answer is no.  Who wants to be a jerk or an a**hole (annoying) ? Have you noticed that when we point it out to that person, all they do is get offended and upset. This eventually turning them against you. I believe this being the result of a lack of willingness to self examine, and to become their own personality critic. How can we say this to people? I guess we really can’t. A famous phrase comes to mind, "monkey see, monkey do”.

     If we start by being our own personal critic, what can anybody say? They can just ask, right? Why are you such a great person? Self-examination! The rest wont be on you or me, but will lie directly under their own power to make the decision of joining the personal critic club. After all, we already know what annoying is, so why be part of the annoying club. This may come as news, but really, we already knew…

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