Have you ever been unfaithful or has someone been unfaithful to you? There is always two sides of the story, it seems. Example: If we speak to someone who’s been unfaithful to their spouse or partner, they may say they were lonely or they were having issues with their partner. If we spoke to the party who was on the opposite end, they may say that they don't know why their loved one would cheat.
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So who is wrong? I think we all would be quick to judge and point out the “cheater”, right? There is more to this than the naked eye could see. So deep , leading to a question: Did this happen so we could understand something? To realize something? To learn something? Yes, yes, yes.
Immense feelings and emotions are involved and this is not an easy situation. In order to come out and continue on, we must take the teaching behind it. For the one who was unfaithful: Learn to be single until you are able to commit, but most importantly know the pain and anguish someone who loved you felt, and never repeat it. For the counterpart; Learn it is not the end but the beginning. Learn you are self sufficient and aspire for who you truly deserve. That person that fills your eyes, nothing more nothing less.
Sometimes we get caught up in difficult situations in our romantic relationships. However, some way or another we end up in the clear. Just as the storm passes there will be calmness and the sun will shine again. After all, we already knew.
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